t_motola 
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Re: “Deejay Gray, 25

What is sad here is that we go into the new year dragging garbage from the past. Why did anyone feel the need to address something that had been sitting dormant since October 21, 2013? I find that to be disturbing and very unprofessional. Let.It.Go. Where there is smoke there is fire...to address something with the intent of hurting another by pointing the finger when clearly you do not have the proof is wrong and just plain hurtful. I don't think Deejay needs rescuing and I will not sit back and allow my dear friend Stephen Ryan get attacked by a bunch of people who have acted in a very malicious manner in a very social setting. There are always three sides to every story...his side, their side and the truth. What we think , know and believe does not matter. (And I happen to know a lot and it did not come from Stephen Ryan) As a professional I have chosen to take the high road. As a friend of Stephen Ryan's I have chosen to send a message to him in this venue to say don't let the harsh and unkind words of a few change who you are and what you stand for. Many people who incorporate a strong moral compass into their lives often face this type of scrutiny. It is painful to be misunderstood by others for our beliefs and strong convictions but at the same time know that your integrity and moral fiber is greatly appreciated by many who can relate to it as well as live by it. I for one live by the same set of rules that you do Stephen so I too set the bar high when it comes to managing my expectations with relationships. You know the truth and that is all that matters here. Not the opinions of a few people that may I remind you at the end of the day, play "zero" role in validating who you are as a human being. You are better than all of this, deserve more than this and need to move on. Time always has a way of revealing the truths. Clearly "James_Bowden" did exactly what he set out to do...I feel certain he is one amongst the crowd. Such a coward!

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Posted by t_motola on 01/03/2014 at 12:34 PM

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